“People don’t buy what you do, they buy why you do it”
Going through Simon Sinek’s Why Discovery Course with a friend was one of the most eye-opening & liberating experiences I’ve ever had. For both of us, it was a great chance to go through a proven process to uncover that which is fundamental about life and business.
For all of us self-employed people, there isn’t much separation between life and business so it’s essential to get clear on exactly WHY we do what we do.
Here is my personal WHY that we uncovered…
“To connect with interesting people, find out what excites them, and how I can help them get more of it. I want to learn more about everything that fascinates me, explore the world, and invite other people in to share what I know — so that we can all feel fascinated, fulfilled & inspired to live life on our own terms & in successful collaboration.”
What is the Golden Circle & how can it help you feel more fulfilled?
Whether they realize it or not, all great and inspiring leaders and organizations think, act and communicate in the same way… and it is the complete opposite from everyone else.
Every single organization on the planet, even our own careers, function on three levels:
1. What we do
2. How we do it
3. Why we do it
When those three pieces are aligned, it gives us a filter through which to make decisions. It provides a foundation for innovation and for building trust. When all three pieces are in balance, others will say, with absolute clarity and certainty, “We know who you are,” “We know what you stand for.”
This simple idea is The Golden Circle. It is a concept discovered by optimist and author Simon Sinek.
Every organization and individual knows What they do. For an organization, these are the products they sell or the services they offer. For an individual, it is their job title or roles as a self employed person.
Some organizations and individuals know How they do what they do. They may call it their “differentiating value proposition,” “proprietary process” or “unique selling proposition (USP).”
The Hows are an organization’s or individual’s strengths, values or guiding principles. These are the things they feel set them apart from their competition; the things they think make them special or different from
Very few people and very few organizations can clearly articulate Why they do what they do. Why is a purpose, a cause or a belief. It provides a clear answer to the questions, “Why do you get out of bed every morning?” “Why does your organization exist?” and “Why should that matter to anyone else?”
Making money is NOT a Why. Revenues, profits, salaries and other monetary measurements are simply results of what we do.
The Why is about our contribution to impact and serve others. The Why inspires us.
People naturally communicate from the outside-in; they typically go from what is easiest to understand to what is hardest to understand and explain. They tell people What they do, tell them How they are different or better, and then they expect a behavior like a purchase, a vote or support.
Here is how most organizations market and communicate:
What: “Here is our law firm.”
How: “We have the industry’s most intelligent lawyers, who graduated from the world’s top schools. Have you seen our client list? Only from the Fortune 500! And, check out our offices – they are absolutely pristine.”
Behavior: “Come do business with our law firm!”
The problem is that What and How do not inspire action. Facts and figures make rational sense, but people do not make decisions purely based on facts and figures. Starting with What is what commodities do. Starting with Why is what leaders do.
Leaders and organizations with the capacity to inspire all think, act and communicate from the inside-out. They start with their Why. When they communicate their purpose or cause first, they communicate in a way that drives decision-making and behavior.
It literally taps the part of the brain that in influences behavior.
Here’s an example with the same law firm, starting with their Why:
Why: “We believe in servicing the needs of others so that they can focus on the difference they need to make.”
How: “We do so by bringing on some of the most intelligent legal professionals who graduated from
the world’s top schools. We work with top performing organizations, most of which are on the Fortune 500 list, so that we can help them make a larger difference in the world. And, we like to go above and beyond, so we have built pristine offices.”
What: “We are a world-class law firm. Come see for yourself.”
If the people at this firm actually believe in their Why and think, act and communicate starting with their Why, they will attract people who believe what they believe and who want to be a part of their cause.
Communicate from the inside-out and speak directly to the part of the brain that controls emotions, behavior and decision-making.
When asked the reason they choose one product or service over the other, the decision-maker often cites the features, benefits, facts or figures. What’s the reasoning behind that?
The Neocortex, the thinking part of the brain, is always trying to understand and make sense of the world. This is the reason we think we are rational beings when we are really not. If we were, we would never buy a product or service simply because of how it makes us feel. We would never be loyal; we would always choose the best deal. We would never care about trust or relationships; we would only evaluate the numbers.
We know that we don’t do that. We do choose one product, service or company over another because of the way it makes us feel.
The Limbic System controls our emotions, feelings and decision-making, but remember it has no capacity for language. We make decisions using our Limbic System and then rationalize that decision with the part of the brain that can communicate with words, the Neocortex.
There is a difference between repeat business and loyalty. Repeat business means that someone is willing to continue to do business with you. Perhaps because of your price, a feature or some sort of convenience. As soon as that convenience is no longer available, the customer complains or leaves to meet their needs elsewhere.
Loyalty is quite different. Loyal consumers may choose to suffer some sort of inconvenience to continue doing business with you. They will pay more, travel further, proudly defend and champion your brand, even if your product or service is more expensive, further away or somehow less convenient.
This is the reason we can say that people don’t buy What you do, they buy Why you do it — and What you do simply serves as the tangible proof of what you believe.
For The Golden Circle to work properly, you must have:
1. Clarity of Why
2. Discipline of How
3. Consistency of What
No one section of The Golden Circle is more important than the other. The most important thing is a balance across all three.
If you don’t know Why you do What you do, how can you expect anyone else to know? For others to know your Why, you must rst have clarity of your own Why.
The actions that you and your people take to bring your cause to life must be aligned with your values, guiding principles, strengths and beliefs.
And everything you say and everything you do must be consistent with what you believe. After all, we live in the tangible world. The only way people will know what you believe is if you say and do the things you actually believe.
The Golden Circle is not just a communication tool; it also provides some insight into how great organizations are structured. If we imagine The Golden Circle as a three-dimensional model, it’s a top down view of a cone.
The cone represents a company or an organization, an inherently organized system. At the top of the system, representing the Why, is a leader. She or he articulates the Why and points to a vision of a better future.
The next level down, the How level, includes the people who are inspired by the leader’s cause. They give their blood, sweat and tears to build and bring the vision to life. The What, at the bottom of the cone, are the things the organization says and does that breathe life into the Why. They make it tangible. An organization communicates its Why through everything it says and does; the marketing, the products and services the company provides … everything.
For a message to spread, it must be loud AND clear. Like a megaphone.
Loud is easy, just drive sales or buy marketing. Clear is harder.
When an organization is clear about its purpose or its WHY, everyone, from employees to customers, can understand it. This clarity invites everyone who interacts with the organization to become champions of the cause, should they choose. Ideally, this clarity starts at the top of the organization and moves through the company. It can inspire people to create products, services, solutions and marketing that brings the Why to life. When everything you say and do echoes what you believe, you end up with a message that’s loud AND clear.
Imagine a world where nearly everyone wakes up each day inspired to go to work, feels safe and valued while they are there, and returns home at the end of each day fulfilled – feeling as though they are contributing toward something greater than themselves. I believe The Golden Circle can help bring us closer to this brighter world.
Do you know your WHY & are you living & working through it consistently?
So now that you know what it means to start with WHY…what will you do next?
If you aren’t sure about your WHY, I am here to help you articulate it.
Although this explanation refers to big organizations, there is much wisdom in the Golden Circle, and a lot that applies to the lives of freelancers, small business owners, all types of entrepreneurs, as well as people who want to make a big change in their personal life. Knowing WHY is essential.
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Learn more about Simon Sinek and the Golden Circle in his famous TED Talk…